to lead a free and happy life, with all the right people!♥♥♥

Sunday, July 30, 2006

~L.O.V.E~

The one you love most, doesnt love you the most.
The one, who loves you most, is never the one you love most.
And the one you spend your life with, is never the one you love most,
nor the one who loves you the most.
He or she is just the person who happens to be at the right place, at the right time.

When a person doesnt love you and wants to leave you,
you must ask yourself if you still love him.
If you also dont love him anymore, do not keep him just to save your pride.
If you still love him, you should wish him happiness,
and hope that he will be with the one he loves most, and not stop him from it.

If you stop him from finding true happiness with the one he loves,
it shows that you already dont love him.
In other words, when you love a person,
you can use another method of possessing the person.
Let him become a permanent memory in your life.
If you really love a person, you must love him for what he is.
Love him for his good points, and the bad.
When you really love a person, you cannot find a reason why you love him,
you only know that no matter when and where, good times or bad times,
you will wish to have this person be with you.

True love is when two people can go through the toughest problems
without asking for promises or listing criteria.
If you are willing to trust a person when all others tell you to go against it,
if you are willing to risk getting your heart broken because you believe in that other person,
that is true love."

i happened to come across this in my very much older post and decided to post it again.
like love songs and stories, such love theories give u a different feeling n outlook at different points in your life. to me, it's true in some ways, not so true in others. like the last part, i dun really agree that if you are willing to go thru those things, that is true love. i've been more than willing to trust, to risk, to give up closer things at heart, but in e end i still had to end dat r/s.

it feels like true love, but it cant be one. cox we cannot be together. not ever in dis life. unless, unless, but no, dat wun happen. cox i know. sometimes im quite confused, lets say two persons can never be together, does it mean true love cant exist between them? or must they be able to be together before we conclude is it true love or not?

actually nobody ever holds the answers to these questions, because it's all subjective. it's all up to us to decide. to conclude. anyway dat's not important anymore. no matter it is, or it's not, it doesnt change a single thing about the fact. cruel cruel fact. anyway all these talking makes me miss him so much. stop it girl. but i have such a strong urge to post his pic up. sigh. i miss you.

but hey im gonna be a happier person! maybe if dis year cant make it, i'll make it my resolution next year! haha wad a far far decision. lol. i'll continue to keep dis disc playing in my hifi to keep my mood up. a girl meets bossanova. good calming "lullabying" effect. sweet dreams to myself.

tmr gg to jiahui's bdae at amk, cannot afford to have swollen eyes haaz. might be meeting him to return him something. deep breath...........

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*elaine
*e.MouSe
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*uol year 3 student
*loves garfield
*loves fann wong
*loves pampering myself
*cherish people who heart me
*adores all pretty babes on earth

Yearning for

♥a peaceful life♥

now: yearning for a happy life and excellent results.

♥My Wish List♥

♥nice laptop pouch
♥good earphones
♥white tote
♥gold gucci tote
♥guess perfume
♥burberry weekend
♥trip to hongkong
♥trip to taiwan
♥trip to australia
♥trip to japan
♥lotsa money to buy things for myself & everybody i love

♥Dearies♥