to lead a free and happy life, with all the right people!♥♥♥

Friday, June 25, 2004

Infatuation vs. Love

Infatuation is instant desire - one set of
glands calling to another.

Love is friendship that has caught fire. It
takes root and grows, one day at a time.

Infatuation is marked by a feeling of
insecurity. You are excited and eager, but not
genuinely happy. There are nagging doubts,
unanswered questions, little bits and pieces
about your beloved that you would just as soon
not examine too closely. It might spoil the
dream.

Love is the quiet understanding and mature
acceptance of imperfection. It is real. It gives
you strength and grows beyond you - to bolster
your beloved. You are warmed by their presence,
even when they are away. Miles do not separate
you. You have so many wonderful little films in
your head that you keep replaying. But near or
far, you know they are yours, and you can wait.

Infatuation says, "We must get married right
away. I can't risk losing them."

Love says, "Be patient. Don't panic. Plan your
future with confidence."

Infatuation has an element of sexual excitement.
Whenever you are together, you hope it will end
in intimacy.

Love is not based on sex. It is the maturation
of friendship, which makes sex so much sweeter.
You must be friends before you can be lovers.

Infatuation lacks confidence. When they're away,
you wonder if they're cheating. Sometimes, you
check.

Love means trust. You are calm, secure and
unthreatened. They feel your trust, and it makes
them even more trustworthy.

Infatuation might lead you to do things you will
regret, but love never steers you in the wrong
direction.

Love is an upper. It makes you feel whole. It
completes the circle. It fills the empty space
in your heart. Love is elevating. It lifts you
up. It makes you look up. It makes you think up.
It makes you a better person than you were
before. If you have love in your life, it can
make up for a great many things you don't have.
If there is no love in your life, whatever else
there is has a lot less meaning.

The secret of our being is not only to live but
to have something to live for.

to lead a happy life at {8:35 PM}
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Saturday, June 19, 2004

wan to rem dis site always. nice, with meaning, about love.
http://wang-yuan.nease.net/wygs.htm

adore dis person, dis creator, thus giving dis site a memory space in my blog too.
http://www.zheteng.com/ttt/lifeview.htm

to lead a happy life at {12:11 AM}
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Monday, June 14, 2004

heez. smiling away now, though i noe dis smile n sweetness wun last too long. juz called him n talked a while, n realized dat dis few days he nv msg coz he's upset bout something regarding my mum, the same issue i was sad abt before i returned singapore.

now he understood y i was so upset during dat last 2 days, n i understood y dis few days he nv msg mi. haix. but i oredi told him i've sorted my own stuff out n noe how to handle dis. he's oso glad to noe dat i oredi knew abt dis thing.

he says now dat he's clear n not upset bout it anymore, he will start msging mi le. we are like talking so sweetly n not like in the past when we haven got together, always being sarcastic n mean to each other. lolx. i tink im sounding silly le.

but i dun mind being silly or wad, dis is the love i've been holding on for so mani years, i wun ever give it up so easily. its still earli to see any flowers or fruits, but im happie dat at least now the seeds are being watered.

though i can only go mlysia again at the end of dis year, but i'll be holding on to dis faith, to see mi thru my coming 5 months. i hope i can make it, i realli wan to make it.

``Life can only assign you your yesterday, and every Tomorrow lies in your own hands`

to lead a happy life at {11:30 AM}
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Sunday, June 13, 2004

i miss you, realli miss u dearly. give mi missed calls in e morning n i realize itz sunday, u do not need to work. happy dat u asked mi to call u, but sadly i do not haf any calling card to use now.

missing you very much right now. how i wish you are by my side, no matter how we spend the time, it will be meaningful to mi. tears well up in my eyes whenever i miss u nowadays, n songs remind mi of you even more every second.

i love you, n my heart aches whenever i tink of you n miss you now. aches whenever i see my mum n remember wad she told mi. aches whenever i realise the fact we are so far apart now. distance separates us, but my heart will always be with you, no matter where, no matter when.

i haf to get down to study my As oredi, but the difficulty ahead makes mi afraid. the challenge is too great, n i am actually veri scared. without the confidence i used to haf, without the support of frenz taking e exams together. i feel lost in the dark world approaching.

i hope, as wad biao said, with the trip to malaysia at dis yr end as a motivation, im able to endure the hardship coming ahead. wanting to see you n be with you is indeed a source of motivation, but sometimes it gets mi down too.

right now, i juz wan to be able to study well, though i cannot stop missing you, i noe i will seek for a balance. hope i'll be able to put studies n love side by side soon. at dat time, i shud be able to handle both studies n love wif ease.

``missing you every now n then`

to lead a happy life at {1:59 PM}
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Friday, June 11, 2004

used to feel like typing out my feelings n pour them here whenever i feel vexed, sad or angry. but now, my heart is aching, i am in pain but i dun seem to haf anything to enter here. i am sad, yes. i am unhappy. but there are juz too mani things for mi to write. i dunno where to start, how to start, and i dun tink i will start.

maybe when i meet up wif sis they all, one fine day or one fine nite, i can pour out everything. i need the support, yes. been crying alot past few days, even as i am typing all dis now. on the train back here from mlysia i was crying throughout oso.

vexed, sad, but haf to settle down to deal wif the more impt things now. tonite maybe going out wif sis they all, after dat haf to get down to studying le. retaking As is not easy, i noe.

``no matter how others may try to break us up, i will never give up my love for you`

to lead a happy life at {12:42 PM}
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Crestfallen

*elaine
*e.MouSe
*26.jan.85
*emouse26@yahoo.com
*elaine_cheng26@hotmail.com
*uol year 3 student
*loves garfield
*loves fann wong
*loves pampering myself
*cherish people who heart me
*adores all pretty babes on earth

Yearning for

♥a peaceful life♥

now: yearning for a happy life and excellent results.

♥My Wish List♥

♥nice laptop pouch
♥good earphones
♥white tote
♥gold gucci tote
♥guess perfume
♥burberry weekend
♥trip to hongkong
♥trip to taiwan
♥trip to australia
♥trip to japan
♥lotsa money to buy things for myself & everybody i love

♥Dearies♥